How To Get Rid Of A Fetish

I hate it and its the only thing that gives me pleasure, what am I supposed to do ignore it? :confused:

uuuh, hmm. I don't think you can. I think you can supress it to a point, but there has to be release.

You may choose to wean yourself off it, however in private and without harming others. Learn to get pleasure from toher stuff.

As long as it involves consenting adults in the privacy of your home... i dont understand the problem.

I can't get pleasure from other stuff, Im not saying what it is cause I'l just get called sick plus it will turn into a sex chat. No one knows about it but me but why can't I just be normal and be turned on by the thought of guys?? (Im female)

What is it?
Your anon what it matter?

(Original post by Anonymous)
I can't get pleasure from other stuff, Im not saying what it is cause I'l just get called sick plus it will turn into a sex chat. No one knows about it but me but why can't I just be normal and be turned on by the thought of guys?? (Im female)

You can't change who you're attracted to or what you like in terms of sex in as much as you can't force yourself to like brussel sprouts more than say, chocolate.

(Original post by kacas)
What is it?
Your anon what it matter?

Why does it matter what it is though?

Because you've hyped it up so much I now want to know.

(Original post by Anonymous)
Why does it matter what it is though?

Maybe if we knew what it was we could give you better advice?

(Original post by dazmanultra)
You can't change who you're attracted to or what you like in terms of sex in as much as you can't force yourself to like brussel sprouts more than say, chocolate.

I suppose, but why do people who are into weird stuff get blamed and called sick if they can't help it?

(Original post by Anonymous)
I suppose, but why do people who are into weird stuff get blamed and called sick if they can't help it?

How do you know we'd think it's sick? You haven't told us what it iiss :p: I don't think things are sick unless they involve hurting others in some way...(as in actual abuse, not S&M or whatever :p: )

(Original post by Anonymous)
I suppose, but why do people who are into weird stuff get blamed and called sick if they can't help it?

It's generally only called sick if it's a) not in the privacy of your own home or b) not involving consentual adults

Edit: you can be into scat for all i care, just do it at home and have a wash before you come out though

Is it that you're attracted to females? Because there's nothing 'sick' about feeling attracted to the same sex. How old are you as well? Maybe you're just curious about your sexuality.

Anyway, different people have different preferences, generally when they start to say have fetishes for children or animals, then it is considered to be sick. I hope this isn't it.

Also, why is it that you hate it? Is because of what other people have said about it? It's difficult to help without more information

(Original post by bunthulhu)
How do you know we'd think it's sick? You haven't told us what it iiss :p: I don't think things are sick unless they involve hurting others in some way...(as in actual abuse, not S&M or whatever :p: )

Ok, but this will get closed so I probably won't get any answers anyway, its mainly spanking and the thought of being put at a disadvantage. If I saw a picture or read a description of anyone being spanked it would turn me on I don't look cause obviously im trying to get rid of this but I end up imagining it, so that makes me homosexual, heterosexual, peadophile and everything else.

(Original post by blackcurrant)
Is it that you're attracted to females? Because there's nothing 'sick' about feeling attracted to the same sex. How old are you as well? Maybe you're just curious about your sexuality.

Anyway, different people have different preferences, generally when they start to say have fetishes for children or animals, then it is considered to be sick. I hope this isn't it.

Also, why is it that you hate it? Is because of what other people have said about it? It's difficult to help without more information

I think Ive been like this since about 9, but only realised properly when I was 14 or something. I hate it because it doesn't involve normal sex with a guy.

lol, so you're submissive. there's nothing wrong with that. Most relationships involve the dynamics of one partner being somewhat dominant, and one being somewhat submissive.

Don't worry about it

(Original post by Anonymous)
Ok, but this will get closed so I probably won't get any answers anyway, its mainly spanking and the thought of being put at a disadvantage. If I saw a picture or read a description of anyone being spanked it would turn me on I don't look cause obviously im trying to get rid of this but I end up imagining it, so that makes me homosexual, heterosexual, peadophile and everything else.

Have you actually tried it? As far as fetishes go, spanking is pretty common, just browse the net for a few milliseconds......

Still, there are counciling services for this sort of thing, if it really bothers you. I guess you just have to associate other things with feelings of arousal, maybe figure out what makes that set of ideas appeal to you to such a great extent.

That sounds pretty normal to me! Most girls prefer to be slightly submissive anyway, it's natural. Spanking is kinky

(Original post by Anonymous)
I think Ive been like this since about 9, but only realised properly when I was 14 or something. I hate it because it doesn't involve normal sex with a guy.

no offense but this is silly,
define normal and why would you only want to have normal sex its boring. The way you've been carrying i thought you wanted to have sex with a pig whilst its being cooked alive or something. You've just described one the most common form of fetishes going. Its not even unusual. Loads of people enjoy it, so your into gentle BDSM, you might even be into more hardcore BDSM, so what?
It doesnt make you gay or a paedaphile. It doesnt make you sick. Many people have deep dark fantasies buried in thier heads, your barely qualifies as kinky in this day and age.

Get tied up get a cat-o-nine tails on you bum and love it. Dont try and suppress who you are thats silly. There is nothing wrong with what you've said and its not going to make into some kind of monster. A raging sexaholic maybe but whats wrong with that (joke)